My Grandmom had cancer surgery today. They found that it had spread. She turned 91 last month and is otherwise an astonishingly delightful example of sharp wit, keen wisdom and the lost art of yummy breakfasts. I last saw her in LA in 2003. Here's to hoping I get to see her again, at the breakfast table, in 2005.
PK
Dear Grandmom,
I know you had a tough day today. I want you to know that I’m with you, right by your side, in mind and spirit. I can’t imagine having to endure what you fought through today. Maybe it’s because you have a 53-year head start on me in wisdom, strength and fortitude. No matter what it is, I admire it and I hold it to my heart as yet another instance of you teaching me that life, family, love and hope are nothing to take for granted.
You are always right there for me with the kindest, most touching of words when I need them. You have no idea how many times your laugh has lifted me from the doldrums, your insight has granted me perspective, and your heart has given me the confidence to face the world knowing that you have my back.
You gave me mom, and through her, dad. You gave me Aunt Judy, who still, after being my aunt for so long, is the coolest babe in the world. You gave me a happy childhood and Uncle Bart and through him the ability to hit a curve ball. You’ve given all of us a legacy of family of which we are so proud. You’ve given me so much more than I will ever be able to give back to you. I can only hope to use your example and pass the same to a family of my own someday.
And speaking of proud, you will find no person on this planet with more pride to have your blood pumping through his veins than me. Your heart is strong. Your mind is strong. Your body is strong. But more than anything, our bond is strong. And it always will be.
I love you. Smile.
The first child of your daughter Mary, your very first grandchild,
Patrick
5 comments:
My grandmother lived to be 93. Oh my God how I loved that woman. We were both blessed to have them in our lives. I'll send up a special prayer for her....and you. : )
Candace
Thank you, Candace.
There will be candles lit for thanks in your honor.
Patrick
That is so sweet! I wish I had sent a note like that to my grandmother while she was still alive. I don't think she had any idea how much I loved and appreciated her.
I"m sure your grandmother will be smiling when she reads your letter. I will say a prayer for her.
Thanks, Nettie. I learned my love for the beach and the ocean from Grandmom. I'm happy we have something in common.
PK
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